Screwed up life.

By kration on Sun, 02-26-12, 19:00

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Its been awhile but I have made a big mistake in my life and dont know how to get out of it.I let a friend of mine move in with me 6 months after my husband passed away to help him out he had no where to go.He was only to be there to help me with the bills and to be my friend.He was my husbands friend and close friend to both of us for years.I trusted him.Now he is running my life.No love affair just somone to take care of him Im scared of him.His words hurt and I do not know what he would do.We have times when things are ok but then it goes bad its like he changes.People say get rid of him but its not that easy.Its my home and i feel like im a prisoneer here.I justed needed someone to care and help me.Im so messed up.I cry alot and think about thinks i should not be thinking of.I dont want to hurt him i still care for him as a friend.

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By scarlett'slyrics on Sun, 02-26-12, 21:27

kration, basically, we all make intricate mistakes—so, I understand the venting. At the time you made the decision to invite this person to your home most likely you were vulnerable. But this is not good that this person has self-made to an authority figure. No, this is not fair to you. Surely, you are feeling suffocated and drained by his incredible demands on you. You mention that others are warning you to get rid of him. And I know that this will not be an easy task. Is it possible that these advisers can help you to move him out while he (the offender) is away from your home? I mean, this guy is blindly unloading anger on you and he needs help for his personal angers. You really would not be doing any wrong to get rid on him. Keep your boundaries clear of emotional problems with this guy. He may have started as a true friend but now he is a villain. Please consider you and your own need for safety. No need for further talk with this person. Possibly he will distort the truth of the matter. Speak out to family and trusted friends to help you correct this situation right away. And remember, you are not to blame for this person’s sad behavior. God be with you.

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