All Alone !

Dear Cry4help, I am here!! Have you been here before? I think I vaguely remember your profile pic. Maybe I'm thinking of someone else!! Would you like to talk more about what you are doing through? I am here so talk away. I'm a good listener and I really do care, so I am here if you need me!!!

My best hugs, Suzee

Totally understood that statement.. Ive thought it many times since the marrage was over.. I learned Im nothing.. worthless and too afraid to get my life back on track. Problem was that I was looking at how I should have been and not what I am. Lol.. at times its good to be a loser depending on what you lost. Simply be yourself and find something bueatiful in that. Then give without hope of return. Help where you can. You cant force folks to like you but you can be a kind ear when needed. Often the problem of finding worth in ourselves is lessened when we start finding worth in others.

Well thank u yeh most the time i am myself maybe thats where im goin wrong i just dont know anymore ! I dont have a problem finding someone its just keeping them ! I dont feel like im asking for much i dont even care if they have alot of money i just want someone that has time for me and that makes me feel special ! Anyone that made me feel worthy in my life has passed away and im in this great big world alone with my kids and just want some companionship ! Its seems everyone is taken and the ones that arent arent worth ur while ! I keep telling myself if u stop lookin thats when youll find them but im not so sure anymore !

Right there with you.....but I do agree that YOU need to feel worthy on your own...no one can do that for you. I am only just now acknowledging that fact and I am having an even greater time accepting it. I have become spiritual and am trying to find out what I like to do. You need to get some hobbies and PLEASE YOURSELF first, then you will meet who you are destined to be with. You have to kiss a bazillion frogs sometimes to get your prince. DO NOT do match.com or anything like - bunch of predators there - just GET out and get into a support group and stay in this on line group - you first need to discover who really are instead of always longing for someone else to make you feel good.....trust me......I have lost all of my friends and have become an alcoholic because of my longing and engaging in bad relationships hoping to feel worthy, hoping to feel like I was not a nothing and a nobody. I am struggling with a few issues and would love to see if we can be of some help to each other......having female friends that support you is a necessity.... chin up and remember it's NOT YOU .... you just haven't met him yet ... in the meantime, go do something nice for yourself and tell your self that you are worthy ... God loves you and that's all that matters right now....... blessings & smiles :~)

Well thank u for the encouraging words sometimes its nice to have someone to talk to ! I dont have many friends and seem to use the excuse that im busy with the kids to get out and do stuff ! They have become my life ! They are like my comfort zone i kinda hide behind them ! Im not that uncertain that im worthy but sometimes i do have my doubts and i try to snap myself out of it ! Having support definately is a plus i just have a hard time excepting it sometimes ! Well thank u and hope we keep in touch take care !

I am alone also I miss talking and beng around people the whole wide web and still alone